I am brand new to this parenting thing, but I am spending all of energy learning how to do it right through studying the word. It all started when I was directed to Proverbs 25:2 that says, “It is the glory of God to conceal a matter, but the glory of kings to search out a matter.” This is speaking of the duty that we have to search out the things revealed to us in the Word of God through study, application, prayer, and the leading of the Holy Spirit. It is a glorious thing to dedicate our lives to searching out the depths of the Father’s heart.
Then I was led to Deut. 29:29 where it says, “The secret things belong to the Lord our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us and our children forever that we may do all the words of the law.” This is speaking directly to us that the revelation that we receive is not meant for us alone. Yes, it will help us, strengthen us, and equip us, but God means for it to do the same for the generations behind us. Think about this: What if a parent takes their lifetime searching out the heart of God and is full of revelation and full of knowledge but trains their kids simply by rules, giving them chores and teaching them how to play sports, etc., if that kid wants to know God for themselves they will have to take their entire lifetime to learn the same things and maybe not even go as far as their father or mother did. (More …)
Meghan 5:17 am on September 18, 2008 Permalink |
You are going to be an amazing father – your children are blessed that God has picked two such amazing parents for them!
I actually had a reasonably “good” relationship with my father. So I never thought my relationship with him hindered my understanding of who God is and how He takes care of me. One day God checked me on this and I discovered I had a number of areas where I had ungodly expectations of God based on my dad’s behaviors. God’s been healing those places in my heart too and realigning me with who He truly is. In doing that it’s helped me to love and forgive my dad right where he is.
I am praying for complete restoration in your heart and even in your natural relationship with your dad…
Blessing be unto you friend